really low fps on high end system

[cybot]

I have an Laptop that exceeds recommended specs for the game with a nvidia video card with 1gb of discrete (dedicated) ddr3 memory and i am getting really low framerates. im only getting about 8fps on maximum settings and the 13fps on the lowest settings. The graphics aren't jerky or anything, just really slow. it moves like it is in slow motion especially during cutscenes and the benchmark tests. the sound and action in the cutscenes are not synchronized. the dialog stops playing long before the characters in the scene stop moving their lips.
even if the game was ignoring the 1gb of dedicated video memory, and using some or most of the shared video memory, with 8gb of system ram, there should still be plenty of memory to go around. unfortunately, in windows 7, there is no way to turn off the shared video memory (i mean seriously, there is nothing i do that needs 4gb of video memory; 1 gb is way more than enough.) in xp, there was a way to turn it off, but since this game requires dx10, trying to run the game from my copy of xp pro would be pointlessy

i7 2.8Ghz (8 cores)
Win7 Ultimate SP1 x64
8Gb DDR3 PC3-8500
Nvidia GT330M W/1Gb of dedicated DDR3 PC3-10600 and up to 3072 dynamically shared memory
SoundBlaster Recon3D Omega Wireless